Anyhow the next day when we wake he is back to calling me baby ect. when I try and talk about it he starts getting all mad and says you want to keep it going. Like I’m suppose to just wash the hurt away but I cant. As in the first warning sign calling names is about control and humiliation.We all have dealt with nicknames and insults, even among our friends.
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There is no need to spell them out here; you can imagine what kinds of words they use.
By insulting you he/she is making you more dependent.
I was abused as a child by my stepmother and ran away at age 15.
When he treats me like that it brings back all them memories as well.
Yes, your partner can have his/her own opinions, but when they question your ideas to the point of insult or humiliation, it becomes emotional abuse.