We dated for a few months, it never got serious, but I did have fun and I truly enjoyed the time we spent together. And why did he act like such an ass when I called him, only to change his tune 5 minutes later? Maybe he was drunker than I thought and was afraid he had his beer goggles on?
Maybe he was just looking to get laid that night and didn’t feel the need to continue to pursue me when that didn’t happen?
It’s just been a really crazy week, but I should have called.” I smiled, “No worries, it’s been a busy week for me too,” cool as a cucumber.
The date ended up being one of the best I’ve ever been on- we chatted non-stop, sparks were igniting, and I just felt all warm and fuzzy inside.
QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life?
Experience is the best teacher of all and this particular experience was an eye-opener and game-changer for sure. I met up with a friend one Saturday afternoon at a bar for a football game. He was cute, charming, and we seriously hit it off right away.The reason I felt compelled to share this story is that it taught me a lot.For one, it taught me not to take things so personally and not to think the worst of myself because some guy didn’t call.I almost called him back to cancel the whole thing.If the phone call was that awkward I didn’t even wanna think about how awful an actual date would be!But if you want to, um, then yeah, sure okay I guess I mean if you want to” “Um okay.