The only way to get rid of a psychopath is to completely go no contact.
It's the only thing that doesn't fuel his games and ego.
He will make that difficult for you -- some psychopaths will stalk you, most will Hoover.
Then lied to me about it I had to find out if I hearing a voice mail a week later on her phone.In the psychopaths mind, everyone else wants him, so you better be on your best behavior, or he will move on to one of his adoring fans. After he sucks you in with idealization, then begins to devalue you, he will suddenly discard you as if you never had a relationship. He will usually move on to another target at this point. "Hoovering." Although a psychopath will discard you, he doesn't quite want you moving on either.If he senses you are done with him, he will suddenly do an about-face, and begin bombarding you with pleas to stay together. He has the biggest ego and a narcissist (over the top). While he was married, he had several other ladies on the side. That's why we understand each other." If there's an obscure book you love, he will make sure he loves it too. Pay careful attention to what a psychopath says on the first few dates about his exes and other people in his life. Does he break his foot on your second date and has to cancel? ) Did he lose his first wife in a car accident that left him with brain trauma (yet he talks fine and seems fine)? Everyone wants great sex, but those who have been with a psychopath often say it's the best thing they've ever experienced. A form of keeping you off balance -- but also possibly an unconscious slip of the mask of his persona. The first step in that is usually to give you the silent treatment over something.