I'm just going to come right out (ha) and say I believe our masturbation habits are basically little, golden oracles revealing more about our lives than we ever want to know.
Seriously, how do I un-know some of the stuff I know now? If you're gettin' freaky with yourself in your bedroom and the thought or imagined scenario of you with the same gender makes your vagina or penis feel the same way it does with the opposite gender (my feeling is usually a combination of incoherent Spanish and "what, WOW, OK, woah"), then let's face it: You could be bi.
But luckily for us, some deeper introspection combined with a nice stranger on the internet potentially connecting some dots can make figuring out sexualities a bit more manageable. On the other hand, if you weren't sure about your attraction to two genders before, but you tried it, it didn't get you feeling all hot and heavy and you're not dying to do it again, it might just be that you were bicurious. Carry on with your life, live your truth and don't forget to tell your friends bisexuals really do exist.
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It's kind of like when you thought you hated sushi, but then you tried it, and you were like, “WOW.
WHAT A SAD, SAD LIFE I LIVED BEFORE THIS MOMENT.”But I'm about to drop a major truth bomb here, so hold on to your damn butts. Genitalia are not the same as a spicy tuna roll with eel sauce. It's just like when you were 15, and you saw a smokin' hot member of the opposite gender, and you thought (and felt in your body), “Yes, I would like your body on top of me, like, 10 minutes ago.”So if you see a member of the same gender, and you immediately think, “Wow, I really want to mash my face up against yours and do the saliva-exchange thingy and also do a bunch of other things with our spicy tuna rolls,” you're probably bi.
I'm pretty confident in my opinion that a strikingly large majority of straight people probably identified as straight BEFORE they started having sex with the opposite gender. On the other hand, if seeing a member of the same gender makes you wonder IF you'd like hooking up with them, but you're feeling more confused than anything (and not ready to pounce), you might just be bicurious.
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If you've only been in relationships with women in the past, but you're still attracted to both women and men, you're probably bisexual.